Teaching Kids to Give Thanks to Their Family, Friends, and Teacher

As Thanksgiving nears, it’s the perfect time of year to teach small children about giving thanks. It’s also a great reminder for older kids to be sure to show appreciation for others who have made an impact on their lives.

Showing thanks can come in many forms, but it’s the sentiment more than the action that counts. When children learn about the value of the people in their lives, they become more aware of the kindness of others and how to make a difference in other people’s lives as well. Young children may not know how to express their feelings of gratitude towards others, so here are some tips to help teach your child about giving thanks.

Be Specific

Common courtesy is something we try to instill in our kids from the start. If someone gives you a gift, say thank you, we tell them. But as they get a little older, they will better understand what saying thank you is all about. For example, if a cousin shared his snack, teach your child to not only say thanks, but to let her cousin know that she appreciates the fact that he could have eaten all his cookies himself, but was thoughtful enough to give her some. If a teacher stays after class to help your child with homework trouble, your child should let the teacher know that although she knows her time is valuable, the fact that she spent extra time with her is something she understands and appreciates. Not only will specificity help your child realize what she’s thankful for, but the recipient of the “thank you” will feel treasured.

Do Something Kind in Return

Of course, not every action deserves anything but a simple thank you, but if your child is really appreciative, she can show her thanks by doing something thoughtful. If her brother helped her with her piano practice, she can help him when he needs to get some chores done. Your child can show grandma that she loves her cooking by offering to help out in the kitchen the next time she’s over the house. By getting involved with the other person, the appreciation level stays strong and the action won’t be soon forgotten.

A Hand-Written Note

The simplicity and care put into a hand-written note is something that seems to be going away. Emails and text messages have replaced traditional thank you notes. The time and thoughtfulness put into writing a thank you note is something that the recipient will adore. Your child can even draw a picture and write some kind words of gratitude and happiness. Make sure your child spends time sending thank you notes after her birthday party, for her teacher at the end of the year, and “just because” to her family members and friends to let them know how much they mean to her.

Teaching your child to express herself is a valuable gift… something she’ll thank you for in the future!

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By: Melissa A. Kay