Introducing the Meaning of Service This Memorial Day

For many of us, Memorial Day is a long weekend signaling the unofficial start of summer, filled with barbecues and time spent with loved ones. At its heart, however, Memorial Day is a time for remembrance. A day to honor the brave men and women who have served our country. Those who made the ultimate sacrifice to protect our freedoms.

How do we, as parents of preschoolers, begin to introduce this profound concept of service and sacrifice to our little ones? Their world is often focused on their immediate needs and experiences. Talking about faraway conflicts and abstract ideas can feel challenging. However, by using simple stories and engaging activities, we can lay the groundwork for understanding what it means to be a hero and to serve a cause greater than oneself.

Starting with the Everyday Heroes

Before diving into military service, it’s helpful to start with the heroes our preschoolers already know. Think about the helpers in their daily lives:

• Firefighters: Talk about how they bravely rush into burning buildings to keep people safe. You can even read a picture book about firefighters or watch a short, age-appropriate video.
• Police Officers: Explain how they work to keep our communities safe and help people in need. Perhaps you’ve seen one in your neighborhood; point out their role.
• Doctors and Nurses: Discuss how they help people feel better. Role-playing with a toy doctor’s kit can bring this to life.
• Teachers: Highlight how they dedicate their time and energy to helping children learn and grow.

By starting with these examples, we can introduce the idea that heroes are individuals who utilize their skills and courage to assist others.

Simple Stories of Service

When talking about military heroes, keep the stories age-appropriate and focus on the core idea of service:

• “The Helpers Who Went Far Away”: You can explain that sometimes, brave people go far away from their families to help keep everyone in our country safe. They learn special skills to do important jobs.
• Focus on Bravery and Helping: Instead of dwelling on conflict, emphasize bravery and dedication. Talk about how they were willing to face challenges to protect others.
• Use Simple Language: Avoid complex military jargon or violent descriptions. Focus on the idea of helping, protecting, and being courageous.

Engaging Activities Little Ones Can Do

• Making “Thank You” Cards: A tangible way for preschoolers to express gratitude. They can draw pictures, use stickers, and dictate simple messages, such as “Thank you for helping us.” These cards can be sent to local veterans’ organizations.
• Planting a “Hero Flower”: Choose a special flower to plant together in your garden. Talk about how it represents the brave people we remember on Memorial Day.
• Creating a Simple Flag Craft: Making a basic American flag using construction paper and crayons is a hands-on way to introduce the symbol of our country and the people who serve it.
• “Helping Hands” Activity: Have your child trace their hand on paper and decorate it. Discuss all the ways people can “lend a hand” to help others, from assisting at home to serving the community or their country.
• Visiting a Local Memorial (Age-Appropriately): If there’s a local memorial, consider a brief visit. Focus on the quiet and respectful atmosphere. You can point out names or symbols and simply say, “These are places where we remember the brave helpers.”

Remembering with Understanding

This Memorial Day weekend, let’s take a moment to not only enjoy the time with our families but also to gently introduce the concept of service to our preschoolers. By starting with familiar heroes, sharing simple stories, and engaging in age-appropriate activities, we can plant the seeds of understanding and gratitude in their young hearts. While they may not fully grasp the weight of sacrifice, they can begin to learn that heroes are those who bravely serve and help others —a valuable lesson that will grow with them. Let’s help our little ones appreciate the big hearts of our heroes, in their small way.

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By: Melissa A. Kay